Opinion:

“Make me happy.” Seems like a simple, hopeful thing. Here, it is phrased as a command. The request version includes “please” as in “Please, make me happy,” or “make me happy, please.” Whether commanded or requested, the speaker exposes a critical character flaw, he/she can not generate happiness in themselves.

Perhaps this is why happiness is an attractive characteristic during courtship. Even causeless (sometimes clueless) rebels upset with their society or the world in general can share happiness’s however contrarian or perverse.

There may be times lonely people seem attractive. A somber pouting face has appeal, though it may be the allure of availability, a sensuous pout draws of our compassion. We’ve seen it dozen’s of times in the movies. Come to think about it, some of those were conman (or conwoman) movies. These people seem more approachable, or it seems there is a defensive posture which begs breaching.

Sticking with happy fellows seems the safe play as we approach the late fall and winter holidays. I’ve been the lonely person in the corner. I welcomed intrusions into my train of thoughts. I like sharing stories of the world and joys found traveling through it. Introverted early in life, I learned to breach my own barriers and approach people. Circles of smiling, happy people are oft tiring, so smaller groups and individuals on the periphery tend to be more my speed.

Dangers arise with discovery. “Make me happy” is a clear warning sign. Not always, but still find an excuse, escape and run to a happy person.

Also beware of variants.

“You make me happy.” Co-dependence alert. Includes “Only you make me happy” and “I can’t be happy without you.”

“S/He makes me happy.” Someone else’s problem. Leave before it becomes yours.

“[object/substance/activity] makes me happy.” Addiction alert.

“You don’t make me happy anymore.” A good cue to leave … Run!

I again tried AI. Here’s what happened.

Mode: Thoughtful (although convincing produced a similar result)

Keywords: Thoughts about people who say make me happy

Article:

Sure, we all get sad sometimes, and our friends, family and partners often help pull us out of melancholy states. Still, I can not recall making this request or demanding t

When it comes to the topic of happiness, it is important to acknowledge that true happiness ultimately comes from within ourselves. While others can certainly contribute to our overall well-being and bring joy into our lives, relying solely on someone else to “make us happy” can be a precarious mindset.

It is understandable that people may express the desire for someone else to make them happy. However, it is crucial to recognize that happiness is a personal journey and responsibility. It is not fair or realistic to place the burden of our happiness solely on another person.

Instead, we should focus on cultivating our own happiness by engaging in activities and relationships that bring us joy and fulfillment. Taking care of ourselves physically, mentally, and emotionally plays a significant role in our overall well-being.

That being said, healthy relationships can undoubtedly enhance our happiness. Surrounding ourselves with supportive and positive individuals who uplift us can have a profound impact on our mood and outlook on life. However, it is important to remember that even in these relationships, each person’s individual happiness remains their own responsibility.

By understanding that we have control over our own emotions and actively working towards creating a fulfilling life for ourselves, we can find true happiness from within while appreciating the positive contributions others may bring along the way.